Since I started relationship counselling recently, one of the things that I was told to keep and build on is spending more time with guy friends. Like many other men I tend to find it easier to be friends with women than with men, I don’t understand why and maybe its because conversation can be at a more emotional level and can cross those boundaries that we as men don’t typically discuss.
Thinking about the whys and where with-alls of this I came to understand that the time spent with guys doesn’t require best behaviour and allows us to be completely free to act as we like in that moment (even if its short). Going home back to your partner after this is enlightening and fun and fresh and gives you stories to tell your significant other (or not!).
The below made for an interesting read about this.